As I was thinking about this post I realized that the rituals that I am most familiar with are primarily religious in nature. I spent most of my life attending church regularly, first a Catholic church and then protestant nondenominational churches. In both settings music is used every week through the services. There is often music playing before the service, and music to call the congregation’s attention to the altar, and music to sing together, and music to close the service. I rarely, if ever, go to church anymore due to a number of reasons that I am, honestly, unwilling to go into. I also rarely, if ever, listen to the music of the church anymore, but I heard and played so much of the music that I can still recall nearly every lyric to a large number of both hymns and more contemporary worship songs to this day. And so I am struck by how influential and meaningful the music of rituals can be. This past week was the anniversary of my uncle’s death and, while I was ...